One thing to always do a regular review of when you are not getting the desired results in life is to analyse the Input you are allowing into your life. What/who are you listening to/watching? Does this build you up and empower/encourage you or does it do completly the opposite? We  largely become the product of the Input we receive. We receive this Input  primarily via the gateways of our eyes and ears which then forms the basis of our thoughts. Our thoughts laregly determine our beliefs (beliefs are repeated thoughts). Our beliefs determine our actions and consequently our actions determine our RESULTS (our Output). Therefore, to change our results it is necessary to go all the way back to the Input we allow into our lives.